Workshop "The Architecture of Silence and the Art of Taking Off Masks" with Hanna Bobnieva from July 24, 2026
- Jun 24
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On July 24, 2026, a workshop from the ITC "Mediation School" titled "The Architecture of Silence and the Art of Taking Off Masks" with Hanna Bobnieva took place.
We talked about mediation in the language of impressionism. About the fact that a conflict rarely consists only of facts. Just like on the canvases of impressionists, it is born from light and shadow, fragmentary impressions, emotions that constantly change depending on the point of view. In mediation, there is no single right perspective — there are several truths, several stories, and a multitude of shades between them.
Impressionists abandoned clear contours for the sake of a momentary impression. A mediator also does not look for perfectly straight lines or flawless logic. They work with what arises here and now: with pain, resentment, hope, fear, with that elusive human experience that cannot be measured by legal categories.
We talked about mediation as the art of seeing not only what is said, but also what remains between the words, using the example of Claude Debussy's "Clair de Lune". This music seems weightless and transparent, as if written from light. But this beauty is born not only from sounds. It is born from pauses. From those moments of silence when a note has already faded, but still continues to live inside the listener.
In mediation, a pause works the exact same way. When after a wave of accusations, the mediator does not rush to fill the space with words. When after a difficult question, they allow a person to be with their answer. When after the first concession, they give the other side an opportunity to truly hear it.
This silence is not inaction. It is the architecture of a space in which the noise of the conflict subsides and something much more important begins to sound. And in this sense, a mediator is a performer who knows how to hold a fermata. Not to rush. Not to save the parties from difficult feelings. Not to drown out what must be heard.
After all, sometimes the most important decision is born not in words, but in the silence that comes after them.
We thank all the participants for their deep reflections, openness, and readiness to explore mediation through the prism of art, and until new meetings at our events 😊
Special thanks for the pleasant feedback:
"I am simply thrilled with today's session🫶. I knew there would be something interesting, but to this extent..... how skillfully and coolly you compared mediation to art, it's wow. Thank you for today🫶. I had such different emotions......I listened with pleasure to what you were telling, enjoyed the music and got "overwhelmed" during the exercise.... Sincerely THANK you❤️"
